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I bet a lot of disappointed pervs go to Disneyland After Dark  

40Deuce 46M
4633 posts
3/18/2019 5:40 pm

Last Read:
3/22/2019 7:15 pm

I bet a lot of disappointed pervs go to Disneyland After Dark


In Iowa the penalty for participating in an office March Madness pool is 1 year in jail (not prison) and a fine of up to $1875 . ASSUMING it's your first offence . Please check your local jurisdiction before you participate .

Yesterday I saw a listicle I thought you be fertile ground for one of my class/lazy make fun of a listcle posts - 20 signs you should worry about your sexual health . But there was nothing funny about it , it was just sad and gross .

It baffles me that for the majority of people it seems that sex is an integral part of a relationship . My brain tells me that if you love someone but they're not into hardcore PIV you should just be able to masturbate and be happy that you found someone - but that doesn't seem to be the case .

I remember being utterly disgusted by a lady at who said that she was divorcing her husband not because she didn't love him but because he was no good in bed . That's insane to me . I have to assume she didn't really love him because nothing else makes sense to me .

The thing that makes it really weird to me is that most couples report their sex lives aren't satisfying anyway - so what are they getting all upset about ?

It's been a long time since Adam Sandler has done anything worthwhile , actually it's been quite a while since he's done anything that wasn't aggressively awful , but Conan O'Brien was talking up his new Netflix special so I checked it out . It was decently funny , which by the standards of what he's done since the 90s is high praise indeed .

Towards the end he did a tribute to Chris Farley . He died more than 20 years ago . It got me to wondering , if/when one of my close friends die how much will it still impact me 20 years later ? Oh , BTW if I didn't mention it the dude who was a super jerk to me in the parking lot at my work died of a heart attack recently . For real .

Patton Oswald is pretty hit-miss for me when it comes to stand-up to the point where I don't bother to watch his stuff anymore but I am curious about his special Annihilation which is the one he did after his wife died . I haven't watched it yet and I may not ever because I'm not sure how I feel about that , but I did watch an interview where he talked about it and he said something interesting .

He talked about how you're programmed to think that when you lose someone close to you that you're in horrible anguish but what you don't get prepared for is the numbness . He talked about how for months after his wife died he'd get up , make his breakfast , take her to school , sit in the car waiting for her to get done with school , take her home , help her with homework , make dinner , put her to bed , and then do the exact same thing the next day . Just the same thing over and over again without ever really feeling anything or talking to anyone . He said at some point he wonder if he was the one that had died and that this is what death was .

Back in the 90s there was a syndicated TV show called Amazon that was about a plane crashing in a remote part of the Amazon (title drop ! ) and the survivors dealing with the weirdo tribe that was there - which was the descendants of other people that had been trapped there going back to the 1500s . It was kind of a Bermuda triangle situation . I enjoyed that show but I bet it's awful .

I wonder if that show had any hand in inspiring Lost .

I wonder if first run syndication is even still a thing .

I feel like I could be a writer on a first run syndicated show . But I'm probably wrong .

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superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
3/18/2019 7:40 pm

Love vs sex and a dead spouse. Interesting that you post this just before my wedding anniversary.

My husband his been gone for 16 years now. I can attest to the fact that anguished grief does not consume your life. Especially if you have a young child to care for. You just plod along. Though it will sneak up on you at odd times. And FYI I didn't love him for his ability in bed. You made a good point.

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40Deuce replies on 3/20/2019 5:36 pm:
It was bound to happen eventually

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
3/19/2019 3:06 am

Hmmm people who divorce because of bad sex - I’m not going to judge. Because I remember being involved with someone where everything was good except for the sex (he couldn’t sustain an erection during PIV - it never lasted more than a minute); and I felt unable to be “all in” because of that hurdle. I guess I’m a bad person? Of course the irony is that eight years later, that situation would probably be fine with me.

The other irony of people who split up because of bad sex is that it’s possible they’ll never find someone and just end up single with no sex at all.


40Deuce replies on 3/20/2019 5:37 pm:
If you could go back knowing that the deal would be in 8 years would you have gone all in ?

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