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Do you........................  

marysia4u 68F
12969 posts
5/13/2018 1:39 am
Do you........................




Keep old numbers from people you've met, or gone that one step further with, knowing it would never happen again?

I keep all of mine, then if they try to contact me again, I ignore the call. I know you can block them, but in some cases it's best to keep them. Like the stalker I had. I've kept all of his text messages, just in case I need them if keeps harassing me.











marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/13/2018 2:12 am

    Quoting  :

Lots of memories I'd rather forget.


kissing_softly 109F  
216 posts
5/13/2018 3:05 am

I clean out my phone directory once a year. If I haven't heard from someone for at least six months ....buh-bye!


SGGuy40s 55M
10 posts
5/13/2018 3:23 am

Better to keep it so that can avoid trouble creators.. hehe


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/13/2018 3:28 am

    Quoting kissing_softly:
    I clean out my phone directory once a year. If I haven't heard from someone for at least six months ....buh-bye!
Thanks for popping in.

I guess there's some in mine I could safely get rid of.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/13/2018 3:30 am

    Quoting SGGuy40s:
    Better to keep it so that can avoid trouble creators.. hehe
Thanks for popping in.

Guess it comes down to..... Sod's law. As soon as I delete one, then it will be the one I should have kept.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
5/13/2018 4:24 am

Sadly I think it makes sense to keep a hold of their number, as you mentioned it makes it easy to block them or store "evidence" should it be needed. Unfortunately some stalkers change their number so you're limited in what blocking you can do.

Thankfully I've never needed to do that.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
5/13/2018 6:09 am

I've deleted most of them - but, strangely most eventually make contact months or years later.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
5/13/2018 6:34 am

I don't delete numbers but there are a couple I have blocked.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


1bighammer1000 58M
4304 posts
5/13/2018 8:20 am

I tend to have friendly relations with gals after playing. And to be honest, I have phone numbers in my contacts for friends who have passed 7-8 years ago.

Anything worth doing is worth doing right


chaso5 65M

5/13/2018 3:52 pm

I have heard that there are those who are so lonely they wish they had a stalker!


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
5/13/2018 7:14 pm

Well, the number of those is very limited...but yes, numbers deleted.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/13/2018 10:03 pm

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    Sadly I think it makes sense to keep a hold of their number, as you mentioned it makes it easy to block them or store "evidence" should it be needed. Unfortunately some stalkers change their number so you're limited in what blocking you can do.

    Thankfully I've never needed to do that.
Hopefully you won't ever have a stalker. Very sick people.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/13/2018 10:05 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    I've deleted most of them - but, strangely most eventually make contact months or years later.
There's only one that I wouldn't mind if they got back in contact with me again.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/13/2018 10:06 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I don't delete numbers but there are a couple I have blocked.
A few blocked on here too. glad that mess of a few years ago has stopped.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/13/2018 10:10 pm

    Quoting 1bighammer1000:
    I tend to have friendly relations with gals after playing. And to be honest, I have phone numbers in my contacts for friends who have passed 7-8 years ago.
You are one of the lucky ones.

Sometimes it's hard to delete someones number that you cared for after they have passed.

There was someone very special to me that passed two years ago. I still have his number in my phone, and all the emails he sent, although I haven't been able to re read them. Maybe in another couple of years I'll be able to read them.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/13/2018 10:12 pm

    Quoting chaso5:
    I have heard that there are those who are so lonely they wish they had a stalker!
They should be careful for what they wish for. It's a very scary thing.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/13/2018 10:14 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    Well, the number of those is very limited...but yes, numbers deleted.
Hope you meet someone nice and never have to delete their number.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/14/2018 3:10 am

    Quoting  :

Guess I could do that seeing as if an unknown number comes up on my phone, i don't answer it.


Bundyman59 64M
32 posts
5/17/2018 12:21 am

I delete numbers for people I haven't seen for ages. My big fingers on small phone screens I don't want to inadvertently ring them by mistake


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
5/17/2018 1:40 pm

    Quoting Bundyman59:
    I delete numbers for people I haven't seen for ages. My big fingers on small phone screens I don't want to inadvertently ring them by mistake

Love your comment.

Bet your big fingers don't always get in the way of things.


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