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Come on woman! ... No, seriously ... Why?  

thax013 46M
534 posts
7/25/2019 6:47 pm

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7/27/2019 12:19 pm

Come on woman! ... No, seriously ... Why?


Lala asked on my response: “ I LOVE seeing my on a woman. “ Why?

Hmm. Let us see if I can manage to vocalize this with the written word.

Now, (aside from my wife) every woman I have cummed on, has been ending a round of sex ... pull , rip the condom off, 2 to 3 seconds to aim, and BLAM. Never on the (aside from rarely my wife). As often as it is in porno, I know that women just do not like that, and I want the woman to enjoy herself. Anyway, maybe those that like blowjobs or handjobs might think differently than I, I do not know.

I think what I love is like, a great painting, my work of art. Your body is the best canvass, luscious curves, full breasts. I have felt the canvass. I know the canvass. I have enjoyed the canvass.

Art is made. Art I can feel. When a painting is being made, the artist does not fully remember each stroke, each action. Once finished, looking at it, the artist is reminded of all of that. Same, with sex, I am caught up in the passion, only to be relived once finished. The completed art is burned into my mind, and it reminds me of each thrust, grasp, quiver, glance, moan, squeeze.

It has nothing to do with degrading the woman, why in the hell would I want to degrade a lovely lady that allowed me such pleasure? It has nothing to do with exerting control over the woman, I have no control over any woman. It has nothing to do with claiming the woman as mine, I have a wife whom I deeply love, I cannot claim another woman, which is why I support my FWBs in finding the special person that they want to be with. Maybe some guys might want it for one of those three reasons, (I hear psychologists claim these reasons) but that is not me.

In essence, it is the finishing action. One which I can memorize, to relive the pleasure for years. After memorizing it, then I help clean up my mess ... towel, or tongue.

Women, where do you enjoy feeling ?
Men, do you also enjoy seeing your on a woman, and why?

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TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/25/2019 8:27 pm

Good lord this word-eating glitch is having a six-course meal on your blog!

But I get the gist of your post

I can't say it's a fetish but it's definitely a strong enjoyment on my part to have my partner cum on my body. I just like the texture and feel of it, the way it rubs into my skin like lotion. I honestly never considered what the guy was thinking (wait? it's degrading? I missed that memo) but I like the artist analogy... that checks out.


thax013 replies on 7/26/2019 9:04 am:
Yes, the word censoring is atrocious. I can definitely see pleasure in cum play. It truly has a unique structure and consistency. In porn, I have always enjoyed watching cum play. Reality is much different. Every lady I have played with just wants it cleaned up.

As for the degrading. I consistently hear that when reading articles about it. (Such as, What he is really thinking when he gives a facial, etc). Which surprises me. If I degrade a lady, why in the hell would she want to meet again?

Thank you very much for visiting and commenting.

TXArmyWife 51F
1964 posts
7/25/2019 8:47 pm

I agree with the lady’s, the art analogy is very cool!
I like for the man to come during sex. In a condom, of course.
Like, OMG, the fucking is so good........!
Not, ok, I’m about to cum. Let me pull out and take off this condom so I can finish on, where ever.

I need a really great kiss!!


thax013 replies on 7/26/2019 9:11 am:
I can understand that. Feeling the cock pulse and spasm without the potential danger of being inseminated.

I, personally, feel that is a waste of cum, but the woman’s pleasure should always be of greater importance than the guy’s. I would fill the condom if that is what she wanted. Tie it off, playfully smack her ass with it before tossing it in the trash.

CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/26/2019 6:20 am

Whether or not cumming on someone is demeaning or not is a function of the thought behind it - not the act itself. It can be, a visual or sensory pleasure for either or both partners, regardless of where the cum lands.

And SOME people (on either end) WANT it to be demeaning - enjoy that - and what is wrong if both parties agree they want to go that route?

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thax013 replies on 7/26/2019 9:20 am:
Very true. In my thoughts, it is never to be demeaning, that is against who I am. You are correct, some like that. That is one of the big reasons for my open marriage, my wife enjoys being dominated and demeaned, and I am unable to fully do that for her.

If both parties like it, then they should definitely be able to enjoy it without prejudice.

CisandTGirl 47M/48F

7/26/2019 8:15 am

Pulling out, ripping off a condom and coming on a woman is never going to look like it does in porn. Why? Because the "Money Shot" was the first thing that happened when making that video. They jerk off until they cum. Then they come back together the next day, or over the course of a couple days to film the rest of the video. Then it all gets edited together to look like 1 video.


thax013 replies on 7/26/2019 9:23 am:
That makes sense. I have known that they heavily cut and edit, especially the boring scenes where the same recording is played 5 to 6 times because they did not get enough material to fill the slotted time.

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s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/26/2019 10:45 am

Does your body of work cover,If I may, a vast array of inanimate
objects as well?

Using more than all the road!


thax013 replies on 7/26/2019 1:20 pm:
No, pretty much just women, the occasional cum towel if necessary.

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