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GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
1/2/2019 6:55 pm

If you are 'broken', you gotta get it fixed. I am not an expert on 'how' to fix your particular issue, but there are those out there who are. Seek professional help (not bartenders, baristas, or barbers) but those who can truly help you. Good luck.


blondegirlis 56F
4497 posts
1/6/2019 8:36 am

My advice.... Stay off of all those sites for a while...a longgg while. If those "people" were truly your friends they wouldn't be talking or posting about you.
Don't go to their parties or to AQ either...give it a rest.

Just stick with the 2 or 3 playmates you trust and know...thats all you need right now. Don't involve yourself with anybody else right now either.

Who cares what they say about you! You know the kind of person you are! Don't let them get "under your skin"...you're better than that!

As for the police showing up at your door..... Do you really think those people want to press charges...involving the police, having to give statements, getting a lawyer, going to court and perhaps having the news get ahold of the story?? I don't think so! Besides if they are to be so bold about it wouldnt they have gone to the police already?! If anything the police would come and give you a warning about these sites and the people that populate them. This I know.

You still have control! You have the power to ignore all this drama...to let it all slide. You've been involved in drama before, a couple of times if memory serves me right, and what did you do then? How did you cope with it then?
You survived...you lived...and will continue to do so!!! Do as Ghost suggests, get someone professional who you can talk to, they dont judge. You know the Health system...there are no charges, no fees when you see a professional.

Stop being "broken" (yes easier said than done but I've been there) and pick up your chin, hold your head up high, puff out your chest and believe in yourself again!!

Sorry for the long post but I had to say it...just wanting to grab you by the arms and give you a shake!


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