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FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS SURVEY  

shadesofginger2 70F  
146 posts
10/12/2017 7:29 am
FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS SURVEY

Good morning and Happy Thursday to friends and fans!

Hope everyone has been having a good week. Mine has been fairly good...no complaints

I've been working on my writing. Well, mostly organization of pieces. I will make final drafts of all including those that have pretty much been in their final stage for awhile. I will be working on pieces that are unfinished, hopefully molding them into shape and making them worthwhile. I expect some may be discarded. All in the Life of a Writer! It's time. I've had many priorities over the past year and a half; many activities and issues to deal with. Most I have told you about in my posts, such as the work done to our home; travel; bouts of poison ivy/oak; work to get the house refinanced; various medical appointments and other (such as dental and I now have my full upper! Yea! I will adjust to this and will have work done for the lower partial. I will likely wait until January as there will be a new benefit year and a good dental benefit) It's time to focus upon my needs/desires for creativity. This will involve art work as well as writing. Wish me luck?

I would love to get answers/votes to my survey on 'Friends With Benefits' as well as individual comments if you have them and wish to share. I am so looking forward to results for this post! I thank you all ahead of time!

Weekend is coming up so I wish everyone a great one (with time enough for my poll? Pretty please?! Lol!)

Hugs,

Ginger
My experience (or opinion) is FWB is just sexual encounters when it works out
To me, FWB means sexual encounters at regular intervals and contact via e-mail, text, chat in between
To me, FWB means regular contact as described in number two and also spending time together for lunch, movies, etc.
Have you ever had an FWB??
If so, have you been with that one FWB for at least 3 years?
Have you had more than one FWB?
Were you with those FWBs for at least 3 years?
Has your friend (s) with benefits had more than one fwb while being your fwb?


banjo6660 57M
615 posts
10/14/2017 4:57 am

Yes I think FWB means more then just sex. I had one for nine years and we are still friends but no benfits


shadesofginger2 replies on 10/14/2017 6:19 am:
Thanks for your comment, banjo! I agree that FWB means more than sex. Some people may be surprised at the longevity that can exist with such relationships but we aren't, are we?! My FWB and I have been friends/lovers for more than six years. We get together on a semi-regular basis and stay in touch in between by texting. I'm happy to say we are still going strong in both departments! Ginger

needu2cumwme 68M  
18 posts
10/18/2017 10:20 am

I've been fortunate to have a FWB for going on 5 years now. And it definitely means more than sex. We see each other as often as our schedules and doesn't always end up in bed. Sometimes, just a cup of coffee or lunch, or a walk in the park. It's a pleasure just spending time together.


shadesofginger2 replies on 10/18/2017 11:42 am:
Thanks for your comment! I happen to agree with you that that's how it should be! Ginger

ramma815 60M
15 posts
10/18/2017 12:31 pm

FWB is more than just sex. It's not love, but there are some feelings involved. It's sort of like, if not for the situation, yours or theirs, a more serious relationship could develop from it


shadesofginger2 replies on 10/18/2017 2:17 pm:
Very insightful and I think, indeed accurate! Thanks for the comment, ramma815, and thanks for visiting Ginger

SplinterwoodSFV 40M

10/18/2017 12:38 pm

It gets complicated if you let it, it's fwb. Plain and simple. Keep it simple and plain, and you will keep your friend and that's a benefit always


shadesofginger2 replies on 10/18/2017 1:13 pm:
Thanks for your comment and thanks for visiting! Ginger

olderpierced 73M

10/20/2017 1:29 pm

Met a young lady in club.....she liked policemen. Told me she'd give a blowjob and sex that I'd never forget.....Told her that when she turned 18 look me up (I was almost 30). Well she did and she was right., but after almost a year we drifted apart. She was best FWB that I'd been with.


shadesofginger2 replies on 10/20/2017 2:08 pm:
Wow! Cool story Thanks for sharing! Ginger

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