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Wow - Just Wow................  

GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1810 posts
10/25/2017 5:54 pm
Wow - Just Wow................

Holy Shit.....

I'm not sure what possess some people to feel the need to comment on what other people look like, or care what people think of, or how they see themselves. What does it hurt these people if someone happens to think of themselves (their appearance) in a certain light, and they disagree?

Confidence is an attractive quality and if one is happy with themselves all the better, and all that matters.

Confidence is attractive, conceit, arrogance and meanness are not! And to judge someone on their looks, and then blog about how awful you think they look, is just plain horrible.

I'm sitting here, shaking my head in astonishment at the insensitivity of some people.

There are people that are attractive on the outside, but the inside is ugly as hell.......

And there are people that are less attractive on the outside, but an absolute joy to know for the goodness that is inside of them.

Give me the second option please....I'd rather know them!



There should be one image: If it disappears again it said

If The Whole World Was Blind...How Many People Would You Impress?

Hmmmmm.......


Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/25/2017 5:57 pm

I'ma just sittin' here shakin' my head..........

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let_me_see1 64M

10/25/2017 6:08 pm

I think I might know who you you are talking about. And you are totally right! Being who one is will slways be the coolest attribute. Some people are born with looks, but no brains. I am glad I have just a little of each! Lol

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Maize32 55M  
1391 posts
10/25/2017 6:08 pm

Totally agree - I want to be associated with nice, caring and happy people.


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/25/2017 6:28 pm

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    I think I might know who you you are talking about. And you are totally right! Being who one is will slways be the coolest attribute. Some people are born with looks, but no brains. I am glad I have just a little of each! Lol
Yeah...when one is so full of themselves that they can't see the beauty of others...is just sad.

You do have both...this I know.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/25/2017 6:32 pm

    Quoting Maize32:
    Totally agree - I want to be associated with nice, caring and happy people.
Thanks...I'm glad you agree. I just don't understand some people,I was brought up to be honest, but never hurtful.

Inner beauty, caring and nice are by far more important....at least in my opinion.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
10/25/2017 6:54 pm

I suppose some women are just bitter and and angry.... and would rather put others down than feel positive about themselves. I feel sorry for someone who's gotten to be that age and still cares more about other people's business than her own.

(for a small state, we've got some loonies that's for sure!)


rachel0718 58F
20470 posts
10/25/2017 7:06 pm

That is just so sad that you have to write about this after seeing it on the blogs here somewhere. I don’t see it out there myself and there is absolutely no need for it. Blogging on here supposed to be fun and not detrimental or harsh to others. It’s too bad that it’s women putting other women down. It’s even sadder to see other women & men probably jumping on that bandwagon with them. Words hurt just as bad as actions do. I’m with Maize… happy, caring, people 😊


Rachel Mae


DaWhiteMexiFreak 31M
2 posts
10/25/2017 7:19 pm

Nice


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/25/2017 8:25 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    I suppose some women are just bitter and and angry.... and would rather put others down than feel positive about themselves. I feel sorry for someone who's gotten to be that age and still cares more about other people's business than her own.

    (for a small state, we've got some loonies that's for sure!)
You could be right, but it is never a good or nice thing to do to make oneself feel better about themselves.

What one posts on their profile, be it their words or their pictures should be up to them and not ridiculed. Basically it boils down to MYOB (as you suggested).

Hmmmm.....I think each state has it's loonies, but you caught on great.....lol

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blzcpl 60M/63F  
180 posts
10/25/2017 8:41 pm

Completely agree. Those who are in secure with themselves often take it out on others. Honest, caring ,genuine are so much more attractive than the physical aspects.

BLZCPL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/25/2017 8:42 pm

    Quoting rachel0718:
    That is just so sad that you have to write about this after seeing it on the blogs here somewhere. I don’t see it out there myself and there is absolutely no need for it. Blogging on here supposed to be fun and not detrimental or harsh to others. It’s too bad that it’s women putting other women down. It’s even sadder to see other women & men probably jumping on that bandwagon with them. Words hurt just as bad as actions do. I’m with Maize… happy, caring, people 😊
It is sad....to put another woman down for their appearance and the way they think of themselves, and then they think that they are God's gift to men on here is just wrong.

I agree that we should have fun here and play nice....I try for the most part to leave positive and thoughtful responses on blogs that I read. As a woman I would never think to criticize another woman for their looks or how they see themselves. God knows we can be tough enough on ourselves..

You are absolutely right - words hurt and once said, they are out there and can't be put back.

Happy...caring people are the best to have around.....there are those here, but a few that need a reminder to try harder.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/25/2017 8:46 pm

    Quoting philmouthnow:
    Looks can be deceiving. The truth is in the eyes.
You are correct- and they can also fade with age. The beauty inside stays with you for life.

The eyes are the window to the soul!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/25/2017 8:48 pm

Thank you

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/25/2017 9:02 pm

    Quoting  :

I just try to mind my business here, comment on blogs that interest me or that I feel touch me in a way. Most times my comments are positive and nice.

I will offer an opinion if the blogger is looking for one....I'm honest when I do.

One thing I would never do is what that blogger did, and I just couldn't remain silent. It's something that should never have been said. No names were mentioned by the person, that really would have been reprehensible, but they did allude to it being someone that commented on her blog. How hard would it be for the subject of her blog to figure things out.....the thought hurts me!

I'm no saint by any means....but intentionally hurting people is not part of who I am.....

There are definitely nice people here....and a few that need to learn a little humility....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/25/2017 9:09 pm

    Quoting blzcpl:
    Completely agree. Those who are in secure with themselves often take it out on others. Honest, caring ,genuine are so much more attractive than the physical aspects.
I suppose insecurity could mask itself as conceit and thinking that they are all that and a bag of chips.

Usually it goes over their head though, and they don't see what is glaringly evident to others.

I agree that being nice and caring are far better qualities to judge attractiveness on, then the outer shell of a person.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/26/2017 5:20 am

    Quoting  :

Yes....I've seen some of the posts and it's just ridiculous.

I get that we are all allowed to give our opinions about things, but when it comes to ridiculing another human being for their appearance....well in MY opinion that is reprehensible and down right WRONG!

She seems to think that perhaps every man on A*F*F is hot for her......the word delusional comes to mind......lol

I try to stay out of any drama on here, but sometimes you just need to open some eyes and minds. Think before you post!!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/26/2017 5:22 am

    Quoting tedscott40:
    I don't comment on any specific person's looks. I don't expect everyone to be as good looking as me.
    Ted
Well Ted....I guess we will all have to take your word for your good looks, since you have not a single picture on your profile......LOL

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Januaryman99 55M  
327 posts
10/26/2017 10:01 am

Goddamn Catholic guilt! You post something like this and I immediately think, "What'd I say?????" Heh. Well played.

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/26/2017 11:13 am

    Quoting Januaryman99:
    Goddamn Catholic guilt! You post something like this and I immediately think, "What'd I say?????" Heh. Well played.
LOL.....no it wasn't you!

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/26/2017 3:34 pm

    Quoting  :

Well this woman is incredibly full of herself, that's for sure. She has the thought that she can have any man she wants and says it. Most women on this site can have any man they want....lol

As I said in the blog post, confidence is great, but her's borders on conceit and arrogance.

She did not name the person she described and blogged about, but she specifically mentioned that it was a woman that had either sent her a message or posted a comment on a pic. She mentioned that the woman in question thinks of herself a certain positive way, and this woman disagrees with the assessment and described her in unflattering terms.

Well gosh-I would think if this woman (the one the blogger referenced) happened to read her blog and saw that...she might put two and two together and see that she was just put down by the blogger!! How hurtful is that?

Now she's feeling all misunderstood......pfffft.

Perhaps next time she should keep her negative opinions to herself...and not put people down for their appearance.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/30/2017 12:25 pm

    Quoting  :

No it's not something that is nice to do. Honestly Joy, I think when this woman looks in the mirror she falls in love and sees nothing wrong with her or her behavior.

I bet she would have gotten a piece of your mind....lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/30/2017 12:30 pm

    Quoting  :

Exactly...and I adore men as well, but you are right-men don't always care what a woman looks like if they think they stand a chance at getting laid. I think some may even admit to it...lol

I agree with you that there are genuinely some very nice, men on this site. I've had the pleasure of emailing with some, but haven't met any yet...since I'm not looking to at the moment.

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jdFunLover1003 63M

11/17/2017 11:33 am

I absolutely agree with you. We seem to connect on MANY Levels!!


Story435 76M
3791 posts
11/21/2017 5:26 am

Just another person that not having fun here like some of are they can all go away!
Butch


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