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I pretend  

rick315875 65M
13314 posts
9/20/2018 2:50 pm

Last Read:
9/22/2018 12:23 pm

I pretend


it's not about
who you are
it's about
who you
pretend to be

I pretend
to be someone
because I'm
afraid of you

of how
you might
hurt me



rick315875 65M

9/22/2018 12:23 pm

    Quoting EuroCouple101:
    I wonder when you pretend, is it helping you not to be afraid? May be when you have more trust that you are not going to be hurt you pretend less or even stop pretending...Take care.
yes that is very true


rick315875 65M

9/22/2018 12:21 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You must always be yourself no matter what happens in life, and you must face life straight on. Because we are strong enough to deal with anything in life as that's why god put us here. I hope your having a good day my friend..
I suffer severe depression and anxiety. It has always made my life difficult. Being myself isn't easy my friend.




EuroCouple101 58M/53F

9/20/2018 8:31 pm

I wonder when you pretend, is it helping you not to be afraid? May be when you have more trust that you are not going to be hurt you pretend less or even stop pretending...Take care.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/20/2018 3:40 pm

You must always be yourself no matter what happens in life, and you must face life straight on. Because we are strong enough to deal with anything in life as that's why god put us here. I hope your having a good day my friend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


rick315875 65M

9/20/2018 3:40 pm

    Quoting JanetP5:
    So much sadness in those few words you wrote there. Not claiming to understand as I don't know the story behind your words, but remember us girls are here for each other and with me at least never be afraid to IM me or mail me if you need a shoulder or just to chat about anything. One of the big reasons for me coming to sites like this, to be with others who accept us and perhaps can lend us strength during the tough time, and help us keep our fears at bay. Hugs
thanks for speaking so honestly and sinerely


rick315875 65M

9/20/2018 3:38 pm

    Quoting  :

yes very true


JanetP5 65T
7 posts
9/20/2018 3:32 pm

So much sadness in those few words you wrote there. Not claiming to understand as I don't know the story behind your words, but remember us girls are here for each other and with me at least never be afraid to IM me or mail me if you need a shoulder or just to chat about anything. One of the big reasons for me coming to sites like this, to be with others who accept us and perhaps can lend us strength during the tough time, and help us keep our fears at bay. Hugs


rick315875 65M

9/20/2018 2:54 pm

I'm lost in fear


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