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Purging My Urgings  

mc_justmc 63M
2046 posts
6/21/2018 7:39 pm
Purging My Urgings


My sex life has always been incredibly busy times separated by long droughts. I remember when a few months seemed like the end of the world. I'm coming up on 5 yrs now, and don't even mind. Prior to that, every weekend I was going to a hotel party, sex club, or hanging out with of my FWBs. Some of those friends lovingly called me "". Then one day, I just had enough. My new favorite word became "No". I got tired of being everybody's 3rd or 5th wheel, and finding a regular girl here is hard.

Well, nearly 5 yrs later there's only thing that really bothers me. It bothers me that NOT having sex with someone does NOT bother me. I could care less. I can take care of my own needs, been doing that since I was 12. I know what I like, know what I need and when I need it. And I don't have to talk to myself about my feelings and I never ask myself, "what are you thinking?".

I'm not saying I won't ever have a relationship, or dig out my inner and have another wild year, all I really know is, I'm OK with how life is going and don't feel the need to mess it up. I've seen similar descriptions on some women's profiles and wonder if this is the result of our social media/internet/connected society we live in today.

Are we Generation Z? Zero love, Zero sex, Zero give a shit?

mc_justmc 63M

6/21/2018 7:44 pm

Geez! What A Whore!

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mc_justmc 63M

6/21/2018 8:24 pm

    Quoting ilikeithot101:
    It happens with not just sex and relationships but with pretty much everything else in life. We kind of just let go of things and we forget about how much we enjoyed them in the first place.
    You just need to put yourself out there. Go on dates even if you don't want to and soon you will start enjoying it again.
You could be right about that, but I'm really so happy not wanting to date, I'm not sure if I could.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/21/2018 9:10 pm

Sooo, it looks like you're saying Dee Snyder is a whore. An honorable profession I might add.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


mc_justmc 63M

6/22/2018 5:52 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Sooo, it looks like you're saying Dee Snyder is a whore. An honorable profession I might add.
OMG, is that who I look like? Yikes! I kinda do! I reread this post this morning, entire words missing, it took 30 minutes to re-edit it.


mc_justmc 63M

6/22/2018 5:53 am

    Quoting NewHavenCum:
    I need sex at least once a week or else I will go crazy
I used to be the same, but now I can find so many things to keep me occupied that I don't really miss it.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/22/2018 6:48 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    OMG, is that who I look like? Yikes! I kinda do! I reread this post this morning, entire words missing, it took 30 minutes to re-edit it.
Yeah, I've been getting better at fill in the blank space.

Maybe curl the hair more and add lipstick then you're totally Dee Snyder.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


mc_justmc 63M

6/22/2018 7:00 am

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Yeah, I've been getting better at fill in the blank space.

    Maybe curl the hair more and add lipstick then you're totally Dee Snyder.
Damn, who would want that? He looks like a member of the "Rocky Horror" cast!


mc_justmc 63M

6/22/2018 6:30 pm

    Quoting  :

Hahahaha maybe that's what I need, a good toy and a shitload of batteries.


mc_justmc 63M

6/22/2018 6:34 pm

    Quoting  :

I find I have a lot more time for other things I like to do, so that's a good thing.


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
6/23/2018 4:06 pm

I know we're not Generation Z, because that is officially a "thing", and they are way younger than us.

I wonder if we are just growing disenchanted with the "seeking" not bringing any satisfactory results, and decided it's not worth the effort.

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mc_justmc 63M

6/23/2018 5:20 pm

    Quoting FMAOPLS:
    I know we're not Generation Z, because that is officially a "thing", and they are way younger than us.

    I wonder if we are just growing disenchanted with the "seeking" not bringing any satisfactory results, and decided it's not worth the effort.
I just googled that, I didn't know there was a Z generation. I think your right, I've been disenchanted for years.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
6/24/2018 7:50 am

I was going to make same comment as FM, it's not just us, apparently it's the younger generation too! In their case I think you're right, it's the disconnectedness brought on by too much internet interaction and not enough RL face to face.

In my case, yes I've kind of given up after years of on and off trying. I do have a long distance BFF who I get to have sex with every couple months, so I guess that takes the edge off. And hopefully keeps me from drying up into a shriveled husk and blowing away in the wind.


mc_justmc 63M

6/24/2018 8:09 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I was going to make same comment as FM, it's not just us, apparently it's the younger generation too! In their case I think you're right, it's the disconnectedness brought on by too much internet interaction and not enough RL face to face.

    In my case, yes I've kind of given up after years of on and off trying. I do have a long distance BFF who I get to have sex with every couple months, so I guess that takes the edge off. And hopefully keeps me from drying up into a shriveled husk and blowing away in the wind.
Oh, if I had a once a month or so friend, that would be enough. I don't like being OK with NOT getting any.


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