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How many times have you been stood up?  

Jchris2018 44M/38F
67 posts
9/23/2018 1:02 am
How many times have you been stood up?

How many times since you have been a member have you invited people to meet and end up getting stood up , no contact, no show.

Please dont include the times that they were courteous enough to text or message prior to your agreed meet time.
1 to 5 times
5 to 10 times
More than 10 times
so many I lost count because no one does what they say anymore
ZERO - incredibly rare


CarriedBack 56M  
144 posts
7/29/2020 12:54 am

I thought long and hard before I clicked on zero, but I really believe that I have never been stood up for a first or second "date" with another Horny.net member. I few random thoughts about this topic:

1. I think I have not had this problem because I have enough communication beforehand so I've developed a good, solid feeling about the person I'm planning to meet. (And BTW, the build-up that happens during the preliminary communications can lead to an explosive first in-person encounter!)

2. I was on Match.com for several years (2001 to 2010), and I got stood up A LOT--include a couple cases in which I know the person was present, but checked me out and then decided they would check out themselves.

3. My Horny.net "stand-ups" have actually been by women (and one couple) that I had met with multiple times and suddenly just ghosted me. (I think in at least two cases with women, they were in other relationships and their partners were on to them.)

Still sorry to hear about the disappointments and frustrations that others have experienced.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
4/7/2019 7:51 am

Sadly too many cheaters and liars here. Then the ones who show and do not look like their pics, are a lot heavier then pic and older then they claimed. This site could be great if more were honest.


On4fun2 64M

12/14/2018 6:08 pm

mostly they turn out to be guy posing as a couple that gets off on the conversation.


lonelydoug61 62M

10/16/2018 9:11 am

happens many times, when my wife and I were here, we would put in our profile we understand when things unexpectedly come up just call, but if no call no show then that's it


uuumgood44 79M
116 posts
10/1/2018 6:10 pm

on A F F being stood up is a norm especially these young girls .


LookN4Threesum2 52M
17 posts
9/29/2018 5:06 am

Several times...I don't get it, why even be on here if you don't plan to meet up???


Yours_4A_knight 59M

9/26/2018 12:52 am

I can't even it seems get to the point where a woman is willing and able to meet, getting stood up as shitty as it would be would be progress

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


candylicker_6t9 62M
317 posts
9/25/2018 3:38 am

They usually chicken out before we get down to actually setting up a meet.


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