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Ruling the Roost.  

Platosgames 102M
2244 posts
10/8/2018 1:27 pm
Ruling the Roost.

I was reading the news this morning and came across this story. I'm sure some of you have seen this. Apparently, it's some young 20's girlfriends list of "rules" for her boyfriend.

I was never very good at following rules when I was that age. And thinking my response to her after reading one or two of the rules would have been.

You will NOT be my girlfriend any longer. promise

I know some guidelines are usually a good idea in relationships, but really. hahaha.

Would any of you even think about following this list of rules?



" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 1:28 pm

I think my favorites are the last two.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


lookingtoplay145 66M
128 posts
10/8/2018 1:38 pm

It seems that in this day and age, we have become stupid about how to treat each other. My simple response to her is to start laughing and remove her from my phone., while walking out the door. Too many out there to put up with shit.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 1:55 pm

    Quoting lookingtoplay145:
    It seems that in this day and age, we have become stupid about how to treat each other. My simple response to her is to start laughing and remove her from my phone., while walking out the door. Too many out there to put up with shit.
Yeah, I see a lot of that these days. LOL.

I'm thinking either she thinks she's just hot as hell, or he does, if he's willing to follow that list.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 1:58 pm

    Quoting  :

Yeah...or a future Dom. LOL

I want to know who the hell this Mo is ..that's hanging around every time.

And of course another favorite.

You are NOT to get mad at me for a single thing ever again.

LOL, who is this girl.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
10/8/2018 2:16 pm

So funny....I think she is destined to be an Old Maid. If she lives that long.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
10/8/2018 2:19 pm

She would be a joy to live with. You have to wonder what made her so insecure.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 2:35 pm

    Quoting  :

That was my thinking too..or she caught him cheating or something.

Some rules are always needed, and discussed up front. I like the no surprises way of thinking.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 2:36 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    So funny....I think she is destined to be an Old Maid. If she lives that long.
I think thats a very accurate and fair assumption. At the very least, she's going to burn through some boyfriends trying to find someone to adhere to her list. LOL

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 2:37 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    She would be a joy to live with. You have to wonder what made her so insecure.
Wouldn't she though.

I wonder if she would have a honey do list...Might not be room for it with all the Honey Don'ts. LOL

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


qvillebiman 66M  
373 posts
10/8/2018 2:43 pm

HAHAHAHAHAAAAAA


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 2:48 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh, I'm sure if she was good enough looking, she could find some insecure young man to follow the rules...for a bit. Can't see it being anything long term.

I have a little insight into being a young guy. Just a little.

Most of the rules are just not able to be followed.

Can't be around girls...what are they moving to a deserted island. LOL

Can't have a single girls phone number...like not even my boss? haha.

And the real killer, I don't see very many young guys adhearing to..

You are NOT to ask for head. Oh yeah, very few young guys enjoy getting head. She shouldn't have a problem there.

I have to disagree with you on the first part Lala, at 20, i'd have laughed at her and said, good luck. Can't think of a single one of my friends that wouldn't have done the same. Well some would have tried to get laid first.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 2:48 pm

I know...I was laughing so hard I was crying this morning when I read this.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 2:51 pm

Lala, got me thinking. she tends to do that. LOL

It's not as much the list of rules..albeit some are just ludicrous. It's the fact that she wants to make all the rules. Relationships are compromise. I see none of that here.

And it shows, she has no trust in her boyfriend. Obviously. If you can't trust the one you're with, the relationship is already doomed.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


DoUIntheButt 41M
118 posts
10/8/2018 2:54 pm


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 3:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Ok...I'll give you that. I do think we thought a lot differently when I was twenty..

I know quite a few actually. I have one 28 year old son and one who just turned 30 last thursday. I know a lot of their friends.

And to be honest, my oldest would have told her to take a hike. The younger brother, would have probably tried to follow her rules. Though he'd give up after a couple of months. I know this one is true, cause I just talked to the older one today about this. haha

So, yeah, I could see some of the guys following along. But I'm an optimist, I like to think people are better at thinking for themselves. Pipe dream these days. haha

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 3:21 pm

    Quoting  :

I have to agree and disagree on this one.

One of my sons, and my oldest daughter know this to be a fact. They were exposed to a lack of trust in their teenage years. And the experience is burned into them. They know without trust, there is nothing.

That said, both of them measure their "success" way too much on whether they have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Daughter is 26 and in the middle of a messy divorce..her second. /sigh

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
10/8/2018 3:53 pm

Gee....I hope his mom and sisters are aware that they'll never see him again!
Is she going to blindfold him when they go out for their every-other-week legit date?

Even in my insecure 20s, I never would have dreamed of creating something like that.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 4:16 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    Gee....I hope his mom and sisters are aware that they'll never see him again!
    Is she going to blindfold him when they go out for their every-other-week legit date?

    Even in my insecure 20s, I never would have dreamed of creating something like that.
Right!?! No women anywhere? Talk about setting up someone to fail. LOL

I honestly can't say , as Lala pointed out, that today's younger crowd might not be like this.. But I'm positive she'd have never made it in the dating world , when I was in my 20's.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
10/8/2018 4:50 pm

I like that one "If we move in there are to NEVER ever be girls at our house".
Hmmm...where is she going to be? She's a girl. OK...assuming she gets to live there. Doesn't she have girlfriends? Maybe a sister? Her mother? NONE of them are allowed!
Sheesh.... I may have had self esteem issues when I was younger (OK...I still do) but never that bad!
Her list is not only over the top crazy, it's also impossible for anyone to adhere to.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
10/8/2018 5:02 pm

I dont reed ore rite so good, sew itz not a problem for me to ignore rools. I figure they wernt ritten fore me anyway...


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 5:11 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    I like that one "If we move in there are to NEVER ever be girls at our house".
    Hmmm...where is she going to be? She's a girl. OK...assuming she gets to live there. Doesn't she have girlfriends? Maybe a sister? Her mother? NONE of them are allowed!
    Sheesh.... I may have had self esteem issues when I was younger (OK...I still do) but never that bad!
    Her list is not only over the top crazy, it's also impossible for anyone to adhere to.
Yeah, way too many open ended demands that just can't be met. I'm just wondering if the guy actually stayed. The article didn't say. I'm thinking he must have agreed, but is too embarrassed to let anyone know . LOL

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 5:14 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I dont reed ore rite so good, sew itz not a problem for me to ignore rools. I figure they wernt ritten fore me anyway...
There were a few typos in her rules..Do you think she might have been swayed to disregard infractions on those, base on a technicality ?

She seems reasonable enough...

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/8/2018 5:15 pm

This is crazy from what I could see of it, I guess she's just destined to be alone, unless she changes her ways.. I hope you have a great week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 5:23 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    This is crazy from what I could see of it, I guess she's just destined to be alone, unless she changes her ways.. I hope you have a great week..
It's certainly out there. haha.

Hoping you have a great week too trzz. and they don't run you ragged this week.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
10/8/2018 5:30 pm

Well ain’t she a peach?


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/8/2018 6:57 pm

I thought the same. Shame I don't like younger women, or I'd be looking her up for sure. LOL

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
10/8/2018 11:06 pm

In the kink world she might have a future as a Domme. Lol Some guys like to be told what to do...be submissive. It's not my thing but I have been propositioned by guys who want to be submissive. My profile name has been interpreted to be BDSM related. Its actually just a play on my initials.
Treating others as I would like to be treated is too ingrained in me. She comes off as a controlling witch(that's putting it mildly).

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/9/2018 5:37 am

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    In the kink world she might have a future as a Domme. Lol Some guys like to be told what to do...be submissive. It's not my thing but I have been propositioned by guys who want to be submissive. My profile name has been interpreted to be BDSM related. Its actually just a play on my initials.
    Treating others as I would like to be treated is too ingrained in me. She comes off as a controlling witch(that's putting it mildly).
haha, Yeah I thought about the Domme angle too. But yeah, I just can't see any guy with any self respect at all, following that many demands.

Gotta be a compromise or it never works.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/9/2018 3:19 pm

    Quoting  :

I was never good at following rules. I'm sure at 20 something, I'd have failed at everyone of hers. LOL

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/9/2018 3:20 pm

    Quoting  :

LOL..that was almost verbatim, my first reaction.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
10/13/2018 12:15 am

I seem to recall you having used the word narcissist in an earlier post. This gal's picture could be next to the definition, in a dictionary. Or spoiled bitch.

Take your pick.

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Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/13/2018 11:23 am

    Quoting FMAOPLS:
    I seem to recall you having used the word narcissist in an earlier post. This gal's picture could be next to the definition, in a dictionary. Or spoiled bitch.

    Take your pick.
LOL..right? That girl is in for a rough life with that attitude. Needs to prepare to be disappointed.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/14/2018 5:39 am

    Quoting  :

Yikes, now there's an interesting response. LOL

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


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