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How would you rate yourself the first time you had sex? 1-10  

Daytimer09B 55M
413 posts
10/25/2018 12:43 pm
How would you rate yourself the first time you had sex? 1-10


It's Thursday and I have had a really rough week. I an optimistic type person so I looking to do something fun in order to break the chill of this week. Play along with me and be honest. Feel free to give details as to how you come up with your rating. Rate yourself with 1 being "not very good" to 10 being "Outstanding."

Just how "good" were you the very first time you had sex?

My answer in the comments.

Daytimer09B 55M
901 posts
10/25/2018 1:02 pm

I am going to rate myself a big whopping "5". Yeah, that sounds pretty sad when it comes to sex but you have to know the circumstances. I was a very young Sophomore in college and my roommate and I decided to throw a keg party (Cheap beer) at our apartment (which did not have hardly any furniture). A friend from school brought me a bottle of Crown Royal as an apartment warming gift. I spent the entire party doing shots of Crown as I mingled with other people, many who I had no clue who they were. We used a banner on our balcony to advertise the party. In hind sight, not a very smart thing to do, but we did pack out the place. Long story short, this girl I had met recently from another college, and whom lived down the road in another building, asked if she could crash in my room until this guy who had been hitting on her left. Being the nice guy I am I said sure, after all, she was very cute. Maybe an hour later the party ended and I made my way to my bedroom. She was laying in my bed with just one of my tee-shirts and panties. I took off my clothes, slipped on some boxers and crawled into bed. She rolled over next to my "extremely drunken self" and asked if I were sleepy. In my head I was screaming YES but verbally I said... no. Next thing I know she had rolled over on top of me and we were kissing. My hands started roaming as I had nothing holding me back because of the liquid courage and the next thing I know I am squeezing an incredible rack. One thing led to another and I was on top and going to town. BAM... within a minute or two I was done and pulled out. She said, "You do not have to pull out because I have protection." In other words, she wanted to go again. This time I lasted close to five minutes.. that may be a stretch, can't remember cause I was too dang drunk and queazy. When I finished I headed to the bathroom to clean up and wouldn't you know, she was right there on my heels. "I've never done it in the shower before" and all I could say was... sorry, I am too drunk and I really don't think I can go any further tonight. She left afterwards and said she wanted a rain check. So that is my story of my very first time... not exactly the way you want it so that it would be memorable... in a good way that is.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/25/2018 1:25 pm

5 and I was a sophomore in college on Maine Day and I was at a toga party- I think the story writes itself from here. Couldnt have been too bad we got married before the Army got him

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Daytimer09B replies on 10/25/2018 1:54 pm:
You lucky lady! I always wanted to go to a toga party but no one ever had one. After our big blowout party we got furniture and decided it was best to just go to other people's parties because we didn't want to get our furniture torn up. Thank for sharing!

superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
10/25/2018 1:54 pm

I give myself a 2. It was the year of the bicentennial. I was 21 and decided I didn't want to be a virgin any more. So I planned my own seduction. I 'crashed' a coworkers poker party and hung around until everyone else left. I'm sure he thought he was the seducer....after all, he's the one that put Beethoven's 6th Symphony on the record player. I didn't really DO anything except allow him to grope and probe and thrust. I bled all over his parents couch and for days afterwards. It would have been a 1 except even then, I was a really good kisser.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Daytimer09B replies on 10/25/2018 2:01 pm:
Sounds like quiet a mess. lol And yes, a good kisser can go a long ways for making sex a more pleasurable experience. Bonus points for being a good kisser.

positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
10/25/2018 2:13 pm

Im guessing I was a 2. I was hammered. At a hotel for a convention in Myrtle Beach. Ahhh, memories.


Daytimer09B replies on 10/26/2018 6:52 am:
You may have been a 2 but I am sure he would say much higher at the time because he was probably hammered and needing some relief as well. Myrtle Beach, wow, I have not been there in ages. I wonder if Mother Fletchers is still around these days and what it is like. Thanks for sharing!

benard69 66M/66F  

10/25/2018 2:32 pm

Had sex in a Volkswagen the first time...At 6' 4" I would rate myself at a 12 but in all honesty it was probably a 2...


Daytimer09B replies on 10/26/2018 6:54 am:
Being 6'4" and having driven an old Volkswagen bug myself once I definitely think style points should be awarded.

lyavu 50F
1538 posts
10/25/2018 5:41 pm

I would say 20


Daytimer09B replies on 10/26/2018 6:55 am:
If you were a 20 I would bet to say he was unresponsive afterwards. Probably had to get jump started to get back up. Rocked his world.

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