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When a woman is complaining about men's behaviour it's better to SHOW you aren't like that, not TELL  

IVFalternative 52M
244 posts
1/16/2019 12:53 am
When a woman is complaining about men's behaviour it's better to SHOW you aren't like that, not TELL


Obviously any guy on here with his head screwed on is going to want women know that he is not the type of guy she is complaining about. Fair enough. Yet if you read a few women's blogs it is quickly obvious that many of the men have no idea how they are coming across. There are enough examples of men respond well so that you can see how it's done in a way that suits your style.

When a guy replies with some variation of "not all men are like that", "it's not fair that you tar us all with the same brush" or "the bad guys ruin it for us good guys" it ALWAYS comes across as whiny with a side dish of begging.

She knows not all men are like that, her post wasn't personally directed at you, and you are doing a fine job of screwing up without any help.

What's worse is that you leave your pathetic bleating out in public on a site where you're hoping to pick up

When I reply to a blog like that, I never SAY that I'm not one of those guys, it is an unstated assumption. I've also seen a number of other guys with different commenting style to me are obviously "not one of the bad ones" but who never say it directly.

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IVFalternative 52M
630 posts
1/16/2019 12:54 am

Try it. Or just keep quiet and watch, you'll see what I'm talking about

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traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
1/16/2019 3:38 pm

    Quoting  :

This!!!! It's weird how men seem to think we women don't recognize that some women are problematic. Meanwhile...we're over here with our popcorn and tea watching the antics and the drama go down


IVFalternative replies on 1/16/2019 5:29 pm:
Maybe they don't want to get laid until all women have perfect behaviour

traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
1/16/2019 3:42 pm

The only way you stop that is if a man loses a millimeter of cock length every time he whines about women. And you'd still end up with guys walking around with clits in their pants because they just can't help themselves. Whining is a way of life for them.


traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
1/17/2019 2:51 pm

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Yep! You got me....now I must plot my revenge


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