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Games People Play So far in my search for some hot yummy fun on this site I have encountered some nice people/contacts however I am getting this familiar feeling that I have had from other sites (no fault of the site at all lol) I have tried. It's this deja vu feeling of oh I have seen this or ran into this before. If you have spent any amount of time online searching like this then you know what I am talking about. I did think it might be helpful or maybe even entertaining to list a few general categories for these games for those who may be new to this search. 1. Picture collectors - this is by far in my opinion the largest group. They love sexting and collecting your hot naughty yummy pics and videos. They will hit you up over and over for this and say anything to keep this going. They typically have zero pictures on their profiles but will share in whatever messaging platform you are using with them. These pictures may or may not be them...lol they could even be ones they have "collected". Why are they happy with just this? I have no idea but my experience is that sometimes it's distance that prevents ever meeting in person, sometimes it's that they can't because of their situation and sometimes they just aren't even close to being as presented so an in person meet under any conditions will never happen. I know this is a generalization and broad stoke of this category. Not everyone that just wants sexting only plays games with you. There are a few that will say right up front that this is all they seek. This I respect. It's the ones who lead some one on and on only to flake or disappear or make excuses why they can't or won't meet. 2. Pretenders- This group is comprised up people who pretend to be single pretend to be a different age or even present pictures that aren't even them. The pictures could be them but way younger and different then they are now. I asked one particular gentleman who presented a picture of a model for his profile...he said well I need discretion and I hoped after X amount of time talking that you would agree to meet and like what you saw???? lol No I am not going to like being blantly deceived and neither will anyone else. I think some in this category think no one would like them as they are. That is just sad. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....why not just be yourself and let the chips fall where they may? This kind do mostly seek to meet in person to see if there is enough of a connection to proceed. I have met several of them in the course of my journey and no play did not happen. 3. Good Intenders...These are real sane serious people who actually want to meet. This is a very small group. I don't know if this group plays games per se but they are worth adding here as some of this group will be as presented and really want to meet but then they may get scared, nervous or for whatever they will cancel, not show or just disappear. So what are your experiences? Do you have thoughts or theories as to why these games are played? Would love to hear your thoughts. As a disclaimer: I love sexting. It leaves me wet and wanting however I prefer to do it to heat things up with a potential or potentials that actually want to meet. Because without that as a goal it feels like a waste of time. Candy |
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Interesting classifications... I guess as a guy, my experience is completely different. I don't chase, pretend, or any of that stuff... did I miss a "type" "?🤔 I think it's about distance, for me. I live in a large city, with plenty of opportunities, so I'm not into a long distance chase. They (you women) seem to like the thrill of pretending... with me... and that's fine. I don't mind sexting and chatting.. I've met some great people here... So....? Whatcha up to today? You can send me your naked pics to my blog mail box..... lol 😱 I'll never refuse them... 😘 Have a great Sunday... Sex With a Domme Way More Fun Than Toast and Jam ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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By the way.... Here's a tip on how these blogs get noticed... After you post your blog, make sure add your comment, to your own post. That first comment assures that your post will be listed on the A F F front page of the website.... More people will see it and comment. I don't know why it's like that, but that's the way A F F has managed their blog algorithm... Best of luck! 🍀😘 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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You'd think this site would make things easier to get those things we are looking for, but add in the groups you've listed, and things get disappointing. I'm always a bit nervous about meeting, but always show up. Being an older single male on this site I know opportunity is a rare thing, so I always, always seize the day. lol Thoughts from the Garden...
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The phishers... A profile using Google Translate to communicate with you in your native language (in my case, Greek), and not making any sense because automated translation rarely works. The catfishers... A profile pretending to be a 35year old in the same city when they are probably 55 and living across the country. The double profilers... Don't know why someone would go to the trouble of having more than one profile - with the same profile pic, and similar usernames eg. "misterxx" and "misterxxx" - and show up as logged in at the same time.
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3/25/2019 5:19 am |
Excellent categorizing! I agree totally and thanks for the input. Candy
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I have found that most on here are pretenders, most prefer to chat and drag it along then just stop when a meet is scheduled, why I don’t pay for this site any longer
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Hey Darlin, .........I’ll be the first to admit,.......This site is Full of fakes and phonies, but that’s where the blogs help, reading someone’s blog is like a look inside their psyche,........Well maybe just mine but you get the idea,......... Sinfully Yours backpocket13 Post Script; If you should happen to have a little time on your hands swing on by my blog and say high!
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4/1/2019 2:08 am |
It might be the area that we live in or something about how I write. Or the picture I guess, but my overwhelming experience with the site is that unless the woman in question is hundreds or more miles away I don't seem to exist. I am not sure where I fall in your classification system, though that I have only the very best of bad intentions on my mind probably defines me. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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4/4/2019 12:36 am |
yup! read the stories, bought the t shirts, had the phantom dates. i have cum to the conclusion that people are the same all over the world thank god! i'm only here for the blogs there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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4/6/2019 4:45 am |
"Oh I am sure there are a few real and serious people on here...just takes time and patience to find them." it is not their reality that i question rather their sincerity.... que sera sera there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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Hi Candics - I agree with you. On top, I have found several scammers and fraudsters. Yes, they are pretenders too, but their intentions are to get money from you, or even they try to expose you out of Horny.net with intimate stuff. I have run into several of these people, and more so lately. That's unfortunate, it makes my search for real and fun women more difficult. But I keep on trying! lol Great post Candics 
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4/22/2019 6:28 am |
Oh I have heard of some of those as well....some of them quiet nasty in nature. Get someone to live sext with them and then threaten to expose them if they don't receive the money requested. Very scary. It is the number one reason I won't do live sexting...I will cam fully clothed to show I am real and my pictures are recent but won't do the other. Trying to be safe and not sorry. Be patient and smart as there are some real ones on here...just have to sort through the BS to find them. Candy
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