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First contact  

rmlookn4some14 54M/54F
14 posts
11/6/2019 4:49 am
First contact

How do you like to be contacted?
Flirt first
Hot for being hot listed
Can't get enough of the IM
Email works best for me
Like to find them in the profiles that viewed me
Like to have them post a comment on my pictures


hughjohnson94 49M

3/3/2020 12:00 pm

Email is always nice... but IM works to (when it works). Hotlist me if they cannot initiate contact first


urblueangel 51F  
2 posts
11/27/2019 1:10 pm

I think an email it’s appropriate, but if it is an IM at least put some effort in it and make a decent introduction


h4rry66 57M

11/17/2019 1:33 pm

Comment on my pics and make contact. Yiu look hot by the way x


IMaMagikman 38M
119 posts
11/14/2019 11:10 pm

Any and all of them. Just show an interest


likeuwet99 54M

11/14/2019 12:28 am

IM works the best


Ongo1ngfun4us 39M

11/11/2019 11:31 am

I'M seems to work best


Pink_Petals 51F
93 posts
11/8/2019 11:09 pm

Much prefer an email. Just shows they've actually taken the time to write something and sent it. I will always reply to an email, even if I'm not interested.


StillBoredinTx 47M

11/8/2019 6:00 am

It doesn’t matter to me.


Studforfun31 36M
17 posts
11/8/2019 4:06 am

Chat rooms are helpful too


Yours_4A_knight 59M

11/7/2019 10:17 pm

Basically I never get contacted, so my answer was more a theory than a reality, and recognizing that I can really only get the IM's without paying which is pretty pointless for me.

I hope that the two of you have a better experience with the service than I have had.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


imsubownme 28M

11/7/2019 9:49 pm

yep


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/7/2019 8:50 pm

Flirt doesn't hurt, but an e-mail does the trick.


capecouple1111 66M/61F  
1 post
11/7/2019 4:29 am

Any of the above but what we really like is when it's the female doing the contacting


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
11/6/2019 1:57 pm

An email that shows my profile was read and shows how we night be compatible. Too many time wasters here.


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
11/6/2019 10:39 am

Most of the flirts I get are from gorgeous women with one photo in there profile and usually 1000 miles away. I rarely get a friend request from local women. I have to send the request and then we never meet or chat after they accept?
I would prefer a flirt, hotlist or friend request from local women as 1st contact.


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
11/6/2019 9:28 am

Probably a flirt. It shows they are interested!


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
11/6/2019 8:58 am

I go with flirt first. Welcome to Blog Land!


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