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Daddy's Private/Anonymous Letter Drop
Posted:Oct 9, 2018 12:12 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2018 7:10 pm
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All members, including standard, may contact me here. I can *not* read messages from even gold members. What you message me here will be between us. I see other blogs that do the same. Be respectful. easy to talk to. Anyhoo, drop me a word or two to let me know this thing actually works. Thx.



Me: retired MW gentleman who misses having the fun. I miss the enthusiasm, the hope and the naive desires of youth. If you are a young lady thinking of being with an older man, let me know. Prefer on going (fwb) but willing to just let life be what it will.
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Several have sent me messages but I can't read them. Message me HERE!
My Ideal Person Ideally you are under 40 (age only a , its attitude that makes all the difference), slender, actually wanting to meet to see where it leads. I interested in pursuing an age/gap relationship. Prefer that you be close in location and able to meet weekdays, occasional weekends. The option to travel over night or longer? NSA and yet ongoing fun FWB /daughter
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Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: Women
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 8-9 in
Body Type: Fit/Slender
Smoking: No. I don't
Drugs: Don't use Drugs
Education: PhD/MD/Post doctorate
Occupation: Retired
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Christian
Male Endowment: 7"
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: White
Hair Length: Shaved
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses.

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Why do you like older men? / Why I've begun to like younger women.
Posted:Nov 14, 2018 1:11 pm
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2018 10:43 am
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I've chatted with several younger women (everyone is younger than me now!) and have always found it quite interesting and instructive to listen to their answers. In one way, it is sad because not infrequently it is often noted that it is not so much a desire for older men per se, but rather than that the men more near their age do not treat them as their whole person needs.

I taught for 30 yrs and never once entertained the idea of fooling around with a student let alone actually do it. It just didnot cross my mind. I was happy with the maturity of women more near my age. So it is strange that after all these I have now come to desire them. I always thought of how perverse it was for men to chase after, basically, girls, especially girls. I still would never cross that line other than to be a platonic mentor to them. Yet having enjoyed a few summer months with a 19 yr home from college, I must admit, though there were obviously cultural, physical and psychological difference, even to some degree, linguistic differences, I thoroughly enjoyed the relationship while it lasted.

Why do I now like younger women? Definitively I not sure. Besides the physical nostalgia, I probably have to say that I enjoy mentoring, being fatherly, protective, to a minor degree, paying for gifts and always picking up the tab, always puling out her chair and opening the door for her. Older women don't appreciate that for some strange reason. Nor do older women kiss with the passion that younger women do. Life is new and to be explored. Fewer comparisons to compete with. I love the way a younger woman looks at me. It actually verifies my continued living. Is there any better in life than knowing there is some one who actually cares for you and looks forward to being with you despite the differences?

I would appreciate if you would give me some of the reasons why you like older men.

NOTE: crass comments will be deleted


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[long] stemmedroses
Posted:Nov 6, 2018 7:24 pm
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2018 1:13 am
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This is an anonymous drop for stemmedroses. I'm not a gold member so I can't read or send you messages because I don't have enough points. If you want to chat, we can start here. I appreciate your contacts. I have over 100 of them from other members. But I can't weed out the actual from the players. Talk to me.






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Nipples: What do you like?
Posted:Nov 6, 2018 7:48 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2018 3:12 pm
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Over the years as a massage therapist I have met women having various degrees of desire of nipple attention. Some wanted none because, I was told, it did nothing for them. Then there was the opposite extreme that was all they wanted or needed because they were one of the 1% of women who could actually have a true orgasm via nipple stimulation. But most women fall in-between. Some simply liked a gentle stimulation as I massaged their breast while others asked for and got pumped.



I had these pumps to encourage blood circulation along the spinal cord. At the last olympics you may have seen many of the swimmers with circular red marks on their bodies. That comes from pumping/cupping, an old far eastern tradition to increase blood flow in a certain area. I have seen pictures of women who are really into pumping. Though it takes constant use over an extended period of time, it does seem to elongate the nipple. I know for a fact that it can reverse inverted nipples without surgery.

I suppose the most unique woman I ever met was a 1 percenter. She could climax several times simply by nipple stimulation. She also had quite remarkably thick nipples that made it easier to stimulate. And she was open to just about anything when it came to it. She liked gentle breast flagellation. And she also enjoyed the cups and purchased her own pair. The last time I saw her her nipples were noticeably larger and definitely more sensitive. But then she told me she started stringing.



I could this fascinating. Both because of how it looked when she showed me plus the fact that she was a woman who actually did it and went shopping with her nipples stringed. She needed a bra because of she was a "C" cup and older and needed the support. But she wore sheer mesh bra's and one had holes cut out so that her stringed nipples could protrude out through the bra. In a satin blouse it was maybe one of the hottest things I had ever seen a woman do in public.

Are there any women out there who do or have done similar things? How important is nipple stimulation for you and what is your favorite means of having them stimulated?

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Why are they always out of state?
Posted:Nov 6, 2018 6:18 am
Last Updated:Nov 15, 2018 6:08 pm
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Why do all the women who message me, flirt with me, hot list me come from out of state? And knowing I'm a standard member, why do the send me messages over and over? It all stinks of this site scamming non-members. After the Ashley Madison fiasco, I'm exceedingly reluctant to ever join another site like this again. You can chat with me on my blog if you are actually wanting to do that.

Also I find it interesting that when I'm in IM, as soon as I choose to chat with someone, their profile disappears in IM. Another benefit of being a non-paying member?



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Musings and Ramblings
Posted:Oct 29, 2018 8:25 am
Last Updated:Oct 30, 2018 6:26 am
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I love pretty things. Don't you?


I don't know what it is about Elsa that always captivated me. She was intriguing.


And I don't know if that is her or just a body double...but she is hot.


No matter the shade, its all delicious to me.


Did you read when you were younger? What was your favorite book? I liked Rupert, hardback comic we got as Christmas present from England...but I only looked at the pictures. I suppose as I got old enough to read and appreciate good writing/stories, I'd have to say Wuthering Heights.


I've always been fascinated with battleships. I like the name "dreadnought."


lothlorienlover is a reference to Loth Lorien, the forest in LOTR where the Lade Galadriel lives and protects. Visit me sometime. Mostly "G" rated.


BTW, enjoy your Hallow Weenie!

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Intelligent Conversation
Posted:Oct 24, 2018 11:35 am
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2018 8:17 am
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When was the last time you sat down with a person of the opposite sex and had a truly intelligent conversation? I suppose it's akin to finding someone who still reads books, turn the page paper variety, today. I haven't been on A.FF all that long but there doesn't seem to be much in the way of conversation here. A natural product of the electronic communication age? I have a tumblr account. (lothlorienlover) I have met a few people online there who occasionally write to me extensively. I don't think the format is all that different other than that there variety is much greater.

Has anyone had any good, extended conversations here? Or met and then had good conversations? Or is this simply a wambam sort of hook up place.
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Do older men cry more (and other things)
Posted:Oct 17, 2018 10:52 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2018 6:09 pm
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"Be quiet! Big boys don't cry! Big boys don't cry!" (10cc)

So we live in a society where it is considered of men that they are weak if they are seen crying. Be that at a funeral, a wedding, at a movie, or when a woman tells them adios. And to some degree, at least for me, it has conditioned me to remain macho, "manly" at times when I have to fight to hold back the tears.


However, getting to this age, the "golden years" dispensation, has some unlooked for, unthought of and unheard of personality differences. Here are a few that I've recognized.

1) I *freely* talk to other people/strangers in public. i.e. Walmart, gym, etc.
2) I speak less and listen more. (this isn't antithetical to #1)
3) I am more free with my money and time helping others.
4) I am way more nostalgic.
5) I am more likely to allow a tear to flow than to hold it back in silence.
6) I am more vocal while making love.

I guess as I have gotten older the question arises at certain circumstances "Why do you give a rat's ass?" The store clerk, I ask her if she colors her hair in a complimentary way. Someone in line in front of me scrounging for change or a dollar of two short, I offer to pay the difference. At funerals, if they really meant something to me, I won't hold back the tears and I will almost pontificate their good qualities while not sugar coating their not so good ones. I am much more encouraging. And I suppose it could be viewed negatively, I am much more of a mind to teach/inform people, especially much younger people. I can't help that. Too many years of doing it in the classroom. However, now its different. Sometimes I wished I was still teaching for a host of reasons.


So I guess all of this is to invite a discussion as to whether or not other men (women by observation) also have experienced that they are more emotionally open and expressive? Or do you think men become more curmudgeonly? I've seen that too, especially when I was younger around crusty old blue collar workers. Back then men seemed more likely to shrivel up as they grew older whereas now, like myself, men are more active, go to the gym regularly, travel, take cooking classes, make new friends.



You're thoughts/observations?
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WTF Horny.net?
Posted:Oct 13, 2018 7:54 am
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2018 1:13 am
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For someone who lives SW of Chicago in a densely populated area, there are very few female members on here in Joliet. The only thing A.FF searches bring up and A.FF front page feed pictures, are women 50 miles away. What gives? Is it because I'm a std member? I KNOW there are more women who live closer. *All* the flirts and hot listings come from women out of state, even out of country. Something is not adding up to give me much confidence in this site.
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