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face pics ladies or is a nice dick pic(not a crappy one)just as good.I ask this question because according to this site men with face pics get more responses.But some are hesitant to show face pics because you lose your anonymity.What is a man to do?
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Is It Your Fantasy? Or Is It Her's?
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Posted:May 22, 2011 5:38 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2020 6:48 am
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Does she really want to do it? Or is he forcing her to?
This is a question that I ask myself - if your plan of action as a man - is to PURPOSELY get your wife/girlfriend "Drunk" ever time you plan to meet with me.
Don't get me wrong! There's nothing the matter with a drink or two - to make one feel "At ease," when first meeting each other. Hell! I usually have one or two myself to help break the ice.
But! If she needs to be in a altered state - sort to speak - it begs the question...is it just his fantasy?
I have no desire to take advantage of a woman who is completely out of it - while her other half maneuvers her with his desires-like a puppet on a string.
It also is a "Major" turn-off to me - when a man is forcing his other - half to participate in something that she has no desire to. I've come across it in the past - and have strayed away from it. Sorry! Not a fan of the saying, "Take one for the team."
It might be his one man team - but she will be taking one none the less.
This is something that is suppose to be shared. Between couples. Not forced upon one-half of it.
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Single Male Swing Club Ettiquitte
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Posted:Dec 31, 2010 4:28 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2020 6:24 am
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I guess some don't get it! Swing Club etiquette that is. I was at a club recently; and saw how some guys screw up the opportunity to play with couples or females. Damn! I know it's a Swing Club; but this does not mean one is afforded the privilege to touch a woman without getting her or her partner's permission.
You know! Simple things like...waiting for a nod of a approval from the guy or the girl; with eye contact. Or just a hand gesture to wave you on to join the party.
I witnessed a couple of guys; who decided to take matters(literrally) into their own hands; only to get rebuffed by a couple.
So! I'll continue to keep my hands in my pocket(or on my dick)until further instructed.
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Do guys really get that pissed off when you don't respond to their E-mails?
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Posted:Oct 2, 2010 2:53 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2020 6:24 am
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I can remember browsing profile's in the past, and coming across one in which a woman wrote, " I Do not need nasty e-mails when I don't respond to you. I will permanently block you." Wow! Do guys do this a lot on this site? You send someone a nasty e-mail because they haven't responded to you?
Hell! I've sent out plenty of e-mails, and got no response. Maybe that couple or female was inundated with e-mails. Or better yet; maybe they just simply weren't interested. Even though one might think from reading a profile; that they are what a couple/female is looking for.
Damn! If this does happen frequentely guys. Maybe we should slim down the ego. Or don't take it so personal when no one respones to us. Or open up our thick skulls a little.
I've come to realize that I'm not for everybody. So! When I don't get a response; I can take a hint. And goodness gracious. This is the Internet. Send a profanity laced e-mail? Are they really taken it this seriously?
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Type
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Posted:Dec 8, 2008 7:01 am
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2013 6:07 pm
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Not much gets under this easy-going guy's skin but there's a word out there that irks me a little."Type" I've always found it to be funny when we are the most mentally complex organism in the world but yet some think that they can peg you in the first five minutes of meeting you.
I came across a profile in which a couple states... not looking for the alpha male type and right under this they stated that if you have a mustache or goatee then you fall under this category. Now talk about being a little judgemental but simply a mustache or goatee makes you that type. That seems like a shallow basis to go on doesn't it.
Another thing that I've read before was a couple stating that they are not looking for the...here we go again Ken and Barbie type. Now just because people happen to be good looking and in great shape, does this mean that they should automatically be put in that category. Maybe there cool,thoughtful and down to earth people. Damn LOL, they can't help the way that they look and who knows just because you might not have the same body type does that necessarily mean that Ken and Barbie won't be interested in you?
I sometimes wonder what type am I. Let me see... a jock, who likes to read, who's laid-back but direct and opinionated. Can be serious as hell but with a dry sense of humor that can laugh at anything. Damn! I'm all mixed up, LOL...see what I mean we all have layers let's stop using that damn word so much.
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Why do some of us guys send e-mails to profiles that we don't have a snowballs chance in hell with.
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Posted:Nov 30, 2008 8:07 pm
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2013 6:40 am
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I ask this questions because when I read the various profiles of women and couples, I often come across the words NO SINGLE MEN in caps.Or they are looking for a certain age group, ethnicity, physical requirement, distance etc.etc.Now with me when I see that I don't have a snowballs chance in hell I simply go to the next profile because I figure why waste my time. But apparently a lot of guys like to waste their time and clog up others message system with bullshit LOL. Is this an ego thing with us? Well if they happen to get a look at my dick I'll convince a couple to want a man over a women LOL. No seriously why else would you send an e-mail when their telling you that their looking for a woman. Again I think it's ego what do you think?
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Swing Clubs During The Time Of Covid-19
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Posted:Dec 6, 2020 6:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 6:36 am
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Not big! On going to Swing Clubs. But I do "Enjoy" attended occasionally. And have had some great times. Even with the possibility of re-living some of those great times. With a couple of Swing Clubs remaining open.....and business as usual. Here in the Central Florida Area. I will not set foot in any of them until this Covid situation has died down. I mean I enjoy a "Great" Sexually time.......but! Is it worth the risk? And for those who still attend the clubs like business as usual? To each their "Own." Not here to "Reprimand" anyone! I just kindly ask that outside the club be conscious. Wear a mask and social distance. So you don't bring what you might have caught in the Swing Club. Out to the general public.
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Face pic or not?
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Posted:May 28, 2017 6:33 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2020 8:52 am
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I've been off and on this site for almost 10 years, and for the most part have never used a face pic as my profile photo. Don't get me wrong!!! I have nothing to hide, and I've been told that I am a attractive man! I just PREFER to be discrete while in the "Lifestyle." If I connect with someone or someone's that I plan on MEETING..... I do send them my face pic. What are others opinion on this????? To each their own!
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Don't worry people!
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Posted:Nov 12, 2013 2:11 pm
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2020 12:11 pm
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Is there anything the matter with being a Pro? Having tons of experience. Or just flat out saying....I'm in the "Lifestyle" ? I have come across a reluctance to use that word "Lifestyle."
Is it a fear of being labeled as a one-dimensional sex addict or addicts?
Or is that word "Sometimes" strayed away from to acknowledge our everyday lives of family, work or school?
I'm a sane, red-bloodied american male, who has other "Interest" outside of the bedroom. But when asked. I do acknowledge that I am and have been in the "Lifestyle" for years.
That does not make me a one-dimensional "Horny Dog." Just a simple acknowledgement of who I am proud to be.
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