We are a male/female couple looking for a female for a one time, or possibly more, encounter

My Ideal Person We have been together 19yrs, been through a million ups and downs but we are in a really good place right now and I think it's time we finally make our forever fantasy come true
I have joined the site without his knowledge, at this point, because I am getting really excited at the thought of surprising him with a threesome. We've been talking about booking a little getaway (closeby to home, Rochester NY) soon, due to our recent "recommitment" to eachother and just need some away time. I would absolutely love to incorporate making our dream come true on this trip. We've kindof talked about finding "her" on our get away, but I guess Im realizing that im really concerned about just randomly trying a hookup with someone. I fully plan to use protection, but wouldnt it be more fun with a sense of comfort with this woman first?
And that's why I'm here. To find the perfect woman for us.
We both have a few extra pounds of fun to share lol.. we love listening to music, hanging out and smoking some herb. We are both sober from alcohol (though it is of no concern to me/us if "she" enjoys drinking)
We both love sex and recently have rekinded our love of it.. after 19yrs together we have obviously gone through some lulls in that department, but I think now is a good time for us to really explore our sexuality and have some fun, we arent getting any younger. I definitely enjoy our sex life (especially recently!) But I have always wanted to be with another woman and he has always wanted to see me with a woman. I also realize I want to see him with another woman too.
So let's chat, get to know eachother and see if we can make fantasies come true