I'm happily married (25 yrs now..married young) My marriage has been an open one for about the past 18 yrs..off and on. My wife and I play alone with other singles..and play together with other couples. All I'm lookin for is some fun. I'm not looking to *fall in love*..i already have that. Just a bit of *playtime* on the side sort of thing. It's my escape ;) What i'm looking for: HUMOUR is the most important. I love to laugh...love to keep things fun and light. U gotta have a great sense of humour. I can't stand dry, tight-asses lol I'm a at heart :) Maturity..it's one thing to be a little goofy (i'm guilty of it too lol)..it's another to act 15 when u're 35. Intelligence..gotta have *something* to talk about in between *sessions* right? lol I have ren..my ren and my wife r my priority..i play when i get free time..sometimes it's often..other times it's not so often. What i'm NOT looking for: i CAN'T stress this enough that i will NOT play with married/attached men who r cheating on their wives/girlfriends. I will not waiver on this. If u lie to me and i find out..all i can say is..gawd help u lol Seriously..i do not need some crazed psycho beating down my front door. I've got too much to lose. I dont need/want the drama. If u're married and cheating..move on... This wasn't meant to be a *sanctimonious speech* I dont pass judgement on why u do what u do. There's many reas for it..and in some cases I can, to a point, even agree with them...but that being said. I just dont need the drama of getting caught up in that. Life is too short..i'm here for fun..not more stress (get enough of that in my daily life lol) Now all that being said..i'm also open to friendship, sharin some laffs and hangin out as well..so if I've peaked your interest at all and u'd like to meet..i'm open to it :) What i'm attracted to: smiling eyes..i love a nice warm smile. And as i said above..a great sense of humour. I'm very non-judgemental and incredibly open-minded. Physically there DOES have to be somewhat of an attraction..but i'm far from superficial and would expect the same from u. So..there it is..if interested..drop me a line or drop the Mrs a line, Can't wait to get to know ya!

My Ideal Person Sense of humour with a great open minded attitude

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each, personality

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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