Well, I'm 54, white, was forced to retire due to an accident after being a computer programmer in Japan for 27 years. I'm of course bi-sexual. I first met, my later to be wife, Michelle when I was 13. She was the first one to know (I was up front from the start) that I do enjoy wearing girls panties and bras (a or b cup). Which actually began at a very early age out of a need to know what a girl felt so I could learn what to do to please them. Then came the desire to know what a girl felt when a boy was doing her sexually??? Anyway, Michelle got things to go a little further. Which was very wonderful of her. She introduced me to a friend of hers Aspen. Who lived in the neighboring state, out on a little farm in the middle of no where, who turned out to be a true born, very pretty petite (like Michelle) shemale. So, I got to see what it was like to imagine myself as a girl (13 years old because that's what Chell and I were at our first time) and see what it was like to a girl (except not having a prissy of course). To say the least, we all enjoyed each others company, and did so for many years. However, it ended very abruptly on October 8, 1992 @ 1:52am. That was when Chell went to Wyoming to pick up Aspen, and on the way here to Billings they were hit head on by a drunk driver going 105 miles an hour in the wrong lane. They both died instantly. Putting it lightly, it effected me very deeply. I even went to Japan for all those years and devoted myself to my own self isolation. I have not been with anyone sexually since. Yes, that's over 24 years. I know, I know I miss that very much also. So here I am, 54, nothing to offer anyone except honesty, caring, understanding, most of all "absolute acceptance", with no judgement at all. So now, I'm looking to see if there is a chance someone would find some kind of interest (sexually of course, or if they just want a true friend) in someone like me???

My Ideal Person Ideal person??? Tough one. Well, let's just say, I'm not into any macho wanna-be crap. I want someone who is real, honest, sincere, open, knows what the old saying "is" and "means": "Mean what you say and say what you mean". When it comes to it, I will not put up with any kind of power and control issues. NO!!!
I guess that's all for now. But I'm a good listener, I hold things that people share with me close and gentle. I mean, if someone shares with me something about themselves well that's "who they are" and I value that and another's quality of life.