I like to think of myself as quite a well mannered and well educated New Zealand gentleman, who is cultured, confident and open minded. I am polite and considerate, loving and devoted, intelligent and quick thinking, spontaneous and loads of fun. My hobbies and activities are varied including (aside from being a workaholic) music (an eclectic mix), art, fashion, food, dining out, photography, browsing book shops, watching dvds and movies, online gaming and random road trips. I am a great dinner or movie date, drinking or walking buddy or traveling companion. My life is leaning heavily towards the creative side and professionally I am an entertainer, author and consultant. Whilst life hasn't been easy these past few years, I have taken a sea change, much preferring an easy-going lifestyle of the Bay of Plenty to the stress of the corporate world in the big city. I run my own successful little business that provides more fun, excitement and stimulation that almost any other job there is out there and I totally love what I do. My work frequently takes me away on overnighters to Rotorua, Taupo, Hamilton and Auckland on a regular basis. I am respectful, I don't believe in walking on eggshells either. A spade is a spade and I tell it like it is and sometimes offend without knowing - but isn't it better to wear your heart on your sleeve than live a life as a shrinking violet? These days I guess you could say I am pretty selfish with my life for I focus on things that I want to do and achieve out of life. I work smart, from home, preferring to stay in my dressing gown (Hugh Hefner-esque) rather than donning a suit. I strive to be around positive uplifting people, I have no space or time in my life for negative people or those who float along like seaweed on the tide. Life is for living and I live for every day - I intend to have as much fun as humanly possible. Come join me...

My Ideal Person I am looking for a young woman under the age of 25 (preferably under 20) who would like to be pampered, loved and spoiled.

Regardless of where you are in the world, if you are interested in chatting, please drop me a line as I would be prepared to fly the right girl into New Zealand, even if for a holiday. As I said before, I am not desperate, and I am never dateless, I am just looking for the right girl for my situation right now.

If you are interested, then why not drop me a line. Who knows, it might be the start of something pretty exciting!!! A simple chat can't hurt.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Hed Kandi, Ministry of Sound, Lior, David Bowie ... sooooooooooo
much to choose from

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Perhaps a loyal relationship with two women?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Debora Ann Woll who plays Jessica Hamby in True Blood. An
incredibly seductive look.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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