Indianapolis, IN 7/31/2024 - 8/5/2024 TL;dr :€“ - No single men, you are NOT the exception - Full swap, same room preferred, separate room on occasion, same roof always - If all of your answers are one word to everything, or you reach out to us and then say you just don't have time right, now; we're all adults, we'd prefer you just say not interested and not waste any time or create misconceptions; we won't hold it against you, lying to us or bullshitting us we will hold against you - Everybody is included in playtime or neither of us are; no hall passes or we just want her/him and the other can watch (let's be honest, it's always her between the two of us) - Discretion is a must, both have very public jobs; we decide our level of discretion based on our comfort level. Don't approach us in public talking about that Wednesday night at the club...especially when we're with people you don't know if they are or are not in the lifestyle - Have grown offspring at home, can't/won't host, but they don't require a sitter anymore so we can get out relatively easily - Both extremely busy though, last minute invites are not generally a good idea with us, but sometimes [b]WE ARE NOT INTERESTED IN SINGLE MALES! AT WHICH TIME WE DECIDE WE ARE, WE WILL FIND YOU. WE DON'T NEED WINKS, FLIRTS, EMAILS, NUDGES, OR ANY OTHER CONTACT VERNACULAR. [/b] How much clearer and blunt do we need to be? Every single male looking for couples is willing, we understand that, because you made a profile and listed that as something you're looking for. However, we made a profile as well and listed that we are [i]not[/i] interested in single males. We didn't just make the profile to put words on the monitor. We also acknowledge the assumption that couples are not here looking to replace each other and are deeply and irrevocably in love with each other; because you made a couple's profile, not two individual single's profiles. A few hangups we both have, we're not interested in smokers (if you smoke...please do not do so around us...people that smell and/or taste like ass, no matter how hot, are a HUGE turn off for us). We read a profile a couple of weeks ago with a couple bashing people who prefer non-smokers. Oh well. We can't make ourselves like what we don't like. If you're a light/social smoker that only smokes when you're out drinking at bars/clubs, you're probably not what we're interested in because where do you think we're most likely going to meet and what do you usually drink to relax and break the ice with a couple? See the logic? If you smoke once or twice a month or something ridiculously infrequent like that, then by all means, send us an email and let us know that, otherwise we see light/social smoker and keep on looking. Empty profiles are an instant goodbye with us. We're on this site to meet likeminded, compatible people for adult fun. If you Prefer not to say on everything, then there is absolutely no way for us to determine if we're compatible. Thus, by deductive logic, we're not compatible and we're not going to waste what little free time we have on email and kik or Telegram tag. Similarly, if you think you might be interested and start a conversation then change your mind, or we start a conversation and all you give us is super short one and two word answers with no conversational interaction - don't tell us suddenly it's a bad time for you when we ask for a meet and greet. We'd prefer a straight up "we're not interested" to save everyone time and confusion. We're not everyone's cup of tea nor is everyone ours. If there is no intellectual spark, just say it. We're cool people and won't give you any shit. Our life demands that we be discreet. You must be as well. Going out the first time and being introduced to all of your friends that know you're swingers isn't what we describe as being discreet. At least, not the first time we meet you anyway. After we get to know you and the social circles you travel, we might be willing to deal with that. But too many people know other people who know other people, just like Six Degrees of Separation from Kevin Bacon, you know? We don't do the let's meet three hours from now thing. We've been in and out of the lifestyle for almost two decades, but we're not a high circulation couple. He's had a vasectomy and she had her tubes tied a long time ago. We're both regularly tested. Neither of us does any drug other than alcohol. So we're about as clean and safe as you can get short of not doing this. Most importantly, [b][u][i]WE WILL NEVER PLAY ALONE[/b][/i][/u]. Don't waste your time. We are doing this to expand OUR sex life, not one or the other's. We've both tried playing alone, more than once, and we don't like it. Should we change our minds for whatever rea, we will find the lucky people. That is not an invitation to offer your services. If you do, we'll block you without a word.

My Ideal Person So what are we looking for in partners? Ideally, people around our age +/- a decade and a half or so. We're not too picky on age and you can be outside of that range if we like you. We don't care too much about looks as long as the per/couple/group are attractive to us and willing to try different things, are height/weight proportionate (not necessarily cut and with six packs), but we do have to have an attraction to you. HWP is not 5 feet and a size 14 in our book. Sorry, we're not into BBWs or big men. It's like the smoking thing, we can't make ourselves like what we don't like.

Of course we're always on the lookout for single females, but they're kind of like Bigfoot and Aliens. Everybody has seen one, but no one ever has any proof. Still, that doesn't discourage us from going unicorn hunting. After all, it's a year round season.

Basically what we're looking for more than anything else at this point are other couples with the female being bisexual or curious for full swap, same room fun.

We are a married couple that is looking to expand our already ample sex life. We'd like to explore just about anything, though we have a few boundaries. As we said, we like full swap, same room fun predominantly, no watersports, heavy pain, or other extreme fetishes. Light biting, hair pulling, lingerie, stuff like that is awesome, just not the crazy stuff. If we have any fetishes, it's that the wife likes to take pictures and video when we play. We like doing other things as well with couples and singles. So if you have something you like, please don't hesitate to throw it out there.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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