I like to read and work a lot. I work a lot of hours am a single parent. Just getting out of a very depressing relationship. I have not been touched by my soon to be ex-husband in what feels like years. I have a very inner kinky side that I am just now learning about. I need to bring her out more. I want to feel beautiful and desireable again. FWB. Not looking for a parent to my 3 s. I will always put them first. So if I don't answer right away I am not ignoring you just otherwise occupied with either the s who are and pre-. All have been treated badly by my ex. So if you don't like the fact that my s don't come first please move on. I am new to this am trying to figure who i am underneath all the years of restraint that has been placed on me. I have a close family relationship with my siblings who also take my time. Yes I am making time for myself but still learning what I like so you have to play around my a schedule. Long story short I have to be in control of everything and for this one thing..the bedroom and all other bedroom acts weather they are in the bedroom or in another place entirely I don't want control of that. No PAIN except the erotic kind I think. I want to give the control to the partner who can read my body and make it soar and release all the inner doubts about myself once and for all.

My Ideal Person Someone who can look what is beyond the skin an into the soul. look past the body that is not so hot but the sweet and gentle person inside. That is what I am craving nd am not getting it right now.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A movie theatre, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Food Play, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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