[COLOR firebrick]Not interested in 'site ambassadors' flirting with me, or otherwise fake contact bs. Legit daters ready to meet, only![/COLOR] ..Looking for a steady per with whom I can enjoy the pleasures of being alive in the world's most vibrant city, while we learn all the little things that excite each other. Exclusive or not; we can decide details after we contact each other and see how we mesh. My needs at the moment are varied; I can handle one-time encounters but frankly, I am of the opinion that friends with benefits be treasured and I would give up AFFing for the right per [and who knows what happens after], but, that per never seems to really come along. In other words I can do either, until the time comes to turn the profile off and savor someone worth keeping. About me, let's see: I am sharp-minded compared to the masses, confident, a wee bit eccentric, horny 24/7 [OK, I have that in common with most of the chimps], slim of build, stratospheric in sex drive. Amusing and polite, until you want me to spank you [and even then, no denigration or real pain]. I'm pierced [as pix show], and have a beginning first tat of many; looking to get it finished by a different artist. Generally, though I clean up well I don't look or dress like most everyone else. I drive, am used to travel, don't enjoy too many spectator sports. Like to hike, looking to get back into snowboarding, love good food mixed with good conversation and good wine. My musical taste is varied but prefer stuff I can dance to, and honestly I'll listen to just about anything; just don't demand that I like it all. I will express my appreciation for a woman in all the ways she likes, and in ways she might have never simply had from anyone before. I'm super-attentive. At the moment my KINK is very strong. I am naturally a Dom interested in bondage, and a few other power exchange plays. If you are sexually sophisticated in this manner so much the better; I'm happy to indulge, but I won't smack your face or degrade you. I'm not a 24/7 kind of guy; our exchanges will begin in the bedroom once we understand we mesh well enough to play this deeply. it takes a certain type of woman to join in this, and many who front about it aren't really up for the challenge. That's Ok, it's just... not enough for me. I am straightforward. Honest, honorable, protective of those who are Mine, and ruthless towards my enemies. Though I may not be built like Ryan Reynolds you'll find my blood is purely male and that intensity and cunning can make up for the fact that I'm not paid to workout for a living. Though I have what I guess is a gothic/punk style [probably the words people would use], I'm not actually a Goth and I don't wear makeup. Let's not get crazy, now. I'm in good physical shape thanks to kung fu and a generally healthy lifestyle, and enjoy being naked. If you don't lust after the physically romantic side of life as deeply as I do, you may have trouble keeping up with me and that just won't work. In addition, I insist that you be smart. At this stage I understand what it is I like about women and a sharp mind is simply something I require. I will no longer compromise. I don't date Dumb, and I don't stick my cock in Crazy. Yes, you're supposed to be amused with that, too. While an intelligent woman will bring her own foibles to the table, we're all flawed in some sense, and I can tolerate a plethora of quirks, but I simply won't deal with unexplainable behavior any longer. For what I am looking for, see below in it's section.. What I'm not looking for: I am cautious about LTRs, but I am thoroughly respectful and considerate and won't treat you like a disposable pseudoper if we're just meeting infrequently. The future's uncertain and one needs to live while one can, so with no further patience for idiots [ie., 90% of the population] I am charging ahead. I am done with games, so don't play them or need medication to live. I just don't like bs, and I'll never give it to you. I just want the same in return. Also, I am shy around ren in the mix; I have dogs, thanks, and are you really going to introduce a Heathen to your s? However, Im not opposed to MILFs. However, ren are often used as an excuse-maker for dating. If you aren't ready to meet someone you click with, please let me move on before it gets to that point. Odds are that if you are under 28 we probably won't have enough in common to move on to the atomic, crazed weasel sex, so though I lust over a lot of under-25 women here, all I can hope for is using your pix for beating off [though I thank you for it]. I prefer my women mature, so 28-44 is good for me. Intelligent, unusual, edgy... if you are these things and not on medication or in therapy, we might mix well. However, if you are shy about describing yourself, consider yourself beyond 'a few extra pounds', or use words such as "crazy", "dead", "trouble", or "thick" in your profile name, please don't contact me. If your profile has only a single blurry picture [multiple pix = I'm more likely to believe it's you] I probably won't be interested enough; even less so if your basic info reads as "I don't know what to say here but I'm horny lol". I want to know you aren't afraid to express yourself. I find profiles with just pussy shots disturbing; I really would like to see your face. If you really want to see my cock, well, you're gonna have to kiss me first. I'm better than average [though no, this isn't secretly Peter North], and my stamina is limitless and honed by a career in the adult vid industry and daily masturbation, so you won't be disappointed. Also, since I am an adult industry alum, if you're using a picture of an adult star rather than your own... I'll know. I HATE liars. Don't pull any games or bullshit with me, because once I see that I've been deceived I'm out, even if it means driving away from you on a corner in Newark on the bad side of town. Though I will never tell you everything about me if we're just meeting to screw, I'm not a liar myself. Well, shit, if you've read this far already, contact me. You Standard members CANNOT contact me too at the moment, so, hey... get your ass in gear and get a subscription. It's barely the price of a cheap date.

My Ideal Person Who I am looking for:

You are -

Uncomplicated. Intelligent. Sexy and confident whatever the personal details. Enthusiastic. Hungry for everything they enjoy. . A good dancer, a good speaker, a good listener, an Olympic kisser. Loves makeout for its own sake, even when sex isn't necessarily following. But... it often does, doesn't it? Know enough about what you love that you look smart doing it.
Non smoker, please. And absolutely no attachment whatsoever to former loser boyfriends. Also, have a job, a place to call yours, and responsibilities. I bust my ass at work only to have others try to take what's mine, so please don't expect a sugar daddy. I have a bit of a foot fetish, so tend to them, please, and cover them with style. Tats and piercings are icing on your cake. I manscape some of my bod because I hate the hirsute look, although honestly I don't have that much to complain about anyway; just please also be well groomed. That means you're soft to the touch, not bristly, you smell good, and maybe get yourself a pedi now and then to please your new interesting lover

I pay a lot of attention to a woman's style and personality. If you have self-confidence, I am going to be intrigued to explore the source and want to please you and show you you're justified.

I work during the overnight/mornings and would not be good for late weeknights unless it's infrequent or we begin at around 8 PM in Manhattan; Fri/Sat nights are better to be meeting a lover. For me, 'Long-term' is something you have to build up to, not something you go into something from scratch with the intent of ending with. Familiarity however is wonderful for pleasurable pursuits, and I do value it. I couldn't offer you a lot of my time thanks to work, and as you can see I am in a cooling off period over relationships. If we're keeping things at a distance, that's fine, you can even objectify me as long as you're never rude or go crazy, I just want to screw the life out of you. You'll be pulling the sheets from your ass when I am done with you.

Right now, I think I'd like to dabble with 'the exotic', so, if you are, let's say, Korean or Eastern Indian, I'll be even more thrilled.

Does that sound copacetic?

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What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

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