Basically happy, horny guy who loves his wife but needs more sex. I have tried talking her into swinging, so far to no avail. She likes the fantasies, but the real prospect scares her. Her libido took a nosedive on the antidepressants, so here I am.

My Ideal Person ENTHUSIASM!!!! Looking for a woman who knows what turns her on. She can be single or have a partner. It wouldn't hurt is if she likes four (or more,) masculine hands on her body, wanting her. She should relish the anticipation of knowing that these men will be releasing their lust on (and in) her soon.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My favorite fantasy is always MFM. I am having sex with my wife, or another past lover, or someone i only imagine, with another man. The activities vary, but the common factor is what it means for the woman. She is immersed in the experience of our desire, relishing the sex as pure sex.

Like a lot of guys who imagine their woman having sex with other guys, I suspect part is memory of the mix of jealousy and excitement when my older sister got sexually active with guys older than her, and much older than me, as I grew up. Part I think is a vicarious pleasure in her pleasure in receiving the sexual attention of so many men. As pubescent boys, we wanted to fuck anything that moved. We fantasize about women who share that same desire, and wish it was that simple. So much for amateur psychology.

That leaves me dead straight so far, with some bi curiosity, but with no erotic feelings that don't include a woman. MFM or groups.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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