I am looking for a lady who is free thinking and confident in herself. Sexy is not just a look, but how a lady carries herself as such, a sexy woman is a sexy woman. When she walks, she glides. When she speaks...everybody listens. The sexy woman I am looking for is able to think outside the box (or the bedroom).I ‘m a mature, educated, well mannered, well-spoken well-endowed 8 1/2" and Orally gifted Now that we covered that...why am I here? I need a playmate. A lady who understands that it is possible to connect with another like-thinking consenting adult in an intimate way and when we are together we can allow ourselves to relax, explore our sexuality free of judgment ……… Me: 39 y/o Black man who lives in the west Houston area. I stand 6'00" 225 lbs . I ‘m pretty open minded when it comes to sex. Nothing you say/ask will scare me, it just may not be my cup of tea, but always willing to try new things... I appreciate the finer things of femininity..hair, mani-pedi, smell, lingerie, the tease, the pursuit and the capture. I consider myself a romantic. (Romance meets erotic) I enjoy including toys with my sex play and have thought about how to discreetly expand some fantasy thoughts. I am not a thug or the "BBC" that many think is the only purpose for having a Black as a lover. My cock is nice...8 1/2" and clean shaven ….Close cropped or smooth is always my fashion choice for Ms. Kitty. I am open to race...Latinas are highly desired, Asian woman have a hypnotic effect on me. Black women are queens and what’s more American than a sexy White woman....I don't discriminate...just be sane. I’m not looking to sleep with everyone on this site...just looking for one