My success in this lifestyle is not defined by cliques, certifications or popularity in the forums. Many would argue that a solo male has no business here. Then what of those couples, married women, and single females that contact me here, and on other web sites? I guess nobody told them. The fact is, there's a healthy demand for solo males that understand this lifestyle. Many couples enjoy 3somes (less drama, easier to manage). There are plenty of females (both married and single), that want discreet fun with a sexy male without the BS. I'm an independent thinker and I march to my own drum. Unless your name is on my paycheck, or you are a very close friend or loving family member, what you think of me personally here matters not. I speak my own mind and enjoy a good debate whenever possible. I'm neither liberal nor conservative, but a thinking human being. I don't swear blind allegiance to any person(s) or ideals. I have no sympathy nor mercy for those that take a hard right or left turn. Debating those types is not a fair fight for me, and I find no challenge in that. Change is inevitable and I have been changing since I was born. I continue to change and adjust with the times and circumstances. I'm financially secure and have worked very hard to get to where I am today. Nothing in this world comes before my principles, ideals, and family. I'm very clean (I wash my own clothes, clean my own home, and my lawn and landscaping are meticulously well kept). I eat healthy, enjoy most kinds of music, and love to hike and walk and explore new places. I'm here to have fun with people I wouldn't meet otherwise. Frankly, I don't meet most of my playmates online. Unlike what I have witnessed here, this web site is not an obsession for me. This is icing on an already happy cake. Long after the sex is gone and the body eventually gives out...I will be as happy then, as I am now. I know my priorities, and although I enjoy recreational sex as much as anybody here...this lifestyle is not a priority. You would as likely find me walking on a beach or hiking in a park, than finding me online wasting my day away. What have I found here the most..?..Most people's egos are writing checks their body's can't cash. As far as the forums go, Mark Twain must have had the forums in mind when he gave this advice..."It's better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you're a fool...than to open it and remove all doubt". The open forum, at times, seems to be one of the best arguments for birth control that I've ever seen. Mistakes..?..I could fill a room with them all, but at least I always went to bat. I didn't sit in the dugout. If you step up to the plate, you take a swing, and maybe you miss...but you can also get some hits. I'm looking for a special lady that will enjoy my company and who appreciates a good, clean, intelligent male as a special friend. "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for single women or couples that want a QUALITY male who takes care of himself and knows how to treat a woman right and understands the dynamics of a 1-on-1 or a threesome...and who will to actually show up and be able to give you an incredible play experience. I never hold youth or lack of experience against anybody. However my time is very precious to me, and I prefer to meet people that have swinging experience.